@kopper mmm yeah that makes sense, i assume that doskel would have more followers from instances that i'm already federating with too so that could also be a factor
@doskel slow cooker implies that it's intended to be like that . i would say it's more of a broken oven that leaks heat, it'll still cook everything but it's gonna take 4x the amount of time
could it be that doskel's (the first person i was referring to) instance nicely trickles in the packets because it doesn't have the capacity to blast it
someone with 1000 followers boosts my post, doesn't slow down anything. another person with a lot of followers (i assume ???) does and it slows shit down
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