@rose my maths teacher played counter strike with me and on his birthday we called a bomb threat so he'd have the day off to play with us and celebrate with his friends
@detondev yeah it's also realising that people aren't annoyed by you and if you pop up to chat with them they'll probably be very happy to
it's also one thing to learn these skills, and another to traverse the hill of anxiety around doing it, like i know that people aren't annoyed if i do something normal, but sometimes i still struggle to take that next step to actually doing it.